Like it says in the beginning...
As u grow ure told do not watch porn or God go punish u! Lol...then ure told to be celebate till marriage...and this applies to the guys...somehow this is nt expected of the guys...well thats a topic for another day..
from my experience...
Was told its wrong to watch porn as its not a married couple carrying out the act thus definitely nt bornagain so na evil spirit ...so because theyre nt bornagain peeps having sex it cant be right or holy...
One ure told to be a virgin till marriage?
Two ure told not to watch porn?
So here goes my qs wth! Are u supposed to do wen u get married?! Learn on the job and do the wrong things i.e where to put it and where nt to put it...hmm hmm for the men ...im sure u knw wat i mean...
For the woman...ow on earth am i supposed to knw ow to please my man and the do's and donts...according to my friend there are loads of books out there...reading a book is different from first hand (i dnt mean physically lol) watching ow its done on tv....are there xtian books on how to please ur partner in bed...and the barrage of qs continue...
I got into my marriage nt having a clue..wat a mans pleasure points are now thank God for grace and a patient partner whos willing to do a walkthrough...imagine if he was a virgin as well...of course i wud have to watch porn to learn ow its done....truth is dat its thru porn that i learnt the things i do now...imagine if i never did...my confidence at pleasing my man wud be zilch..
So my people they say i shud be a virgin until marriage ok i gree...been there don dat...they say i shud not watch porn...me i cant fit gree...as long as i dont jerk off which is nt rite i make sure its for the purpose of my marriage and not to fulfill my personal desires to masturbate. it is the only way i cn learn to please my man especially wen hes got AMPLE EXPERIENCES under his sleeve thats made him the man he is today...
So as i walk thru the valley of watching porn
I will fear no evil of feeling inexperienced
For Thou art with me...to put the things i see into practice and perfect them
the new cliche i have been taught to wait and hv waited all my life to have sex and then wen its time to have sex i hv not been taught by my bible or my pastors how to have sex!
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lmao....i am totally getting you...i don't watch porn personally but i never even heard all that jazz about you shouldn't watch it ....pls carry on and ask God to forgive you after abi....
and there I was thinking Virgin media / virgin mary / virgin atlantic....:)
Whats porn by the way ?
@neefemi - if i ask for forgiveness that means watching porn is a sin na....abi?
@ Dapxin...lol @ all the virgin rhymes u put together...nice one,..porn is an abbreviation of pornography which is an adult film showcasing peeps having sex...cud be more crude than dat...but ill keep it simple...u get my drift..?
at "the new cliche i have been taught to wait and hv waited all my life to have sex and then wen its time to have sex i hv not been taught by my bible or my pastors how to have sex!"
-Gbam!!! u just hit the nail on the head beautifully!!!! why dem no dey teach us. Well me sha started watching the thing since I was 14 so... lol
lol..I dont know oo, but I think there are so sex education videos other than porn it self which teaches u all that in a less....how do i put it *scratches head* in a less 'all in ur face' way i guess.
But thats my take tho.
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