i had to think to myself today...for every couple that is out there ..there is always the underlying question " this might not last forever" "he/she might be cheating on me?" " we might grow apart thus leading to a divorce" all these thots are what goes thru couples heads cos nothing is ever certain ...which then leads me to my question
"AT WHAT POINT DO U THINK TO URSELF I GOT THE MAN/WOMAN IN THE BAG?"
Got him or her in the bag meaning u def feel in ur heart of hearts that they aint gonna leave ...they aint gonna divorce u....they definitely aint cheating on u etc...at wat point in the relationship does anyone ever get that sure...is it wen ure like 90 years old in bed with the lover and waiting to die ...thats wen u know for sure they aint gonna run off with someone else..u probably then know theyre now content with u..and u cant grow apart..etc.
just one the many thots goin thru my mind ...cos all these probabilities aint healthy...but i guess it keeps us on our good behaviour and not taking our partners for granted...but hey thats my opinion..some peeps still take their partners for granted cos they know their partners aint gt a choice...but with all things being equal ...some say that feeling is healthy cos it makes u appreciate what u have ...im with that idea///
ur girl barefeet!
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I'm with that idea too. It makes me appreciate what I have more.
The fear smtyms makes us keep our game tyt. We get to a stage where we cn b sure they'll leav only if we screw up and let go
loooool @ 90 years old in bed!
thats funny. but yh i get ur drift of thots tho---things definitely we all think about at diff times in our lives i guess.
I dont think we can ever know for sure .... im thinkg those thots as well
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@ Myne i feel u ...def keeps u on ur toes and u constantly have that thot on ur mind that u dont want to loose them so that keeps u on ur toes...
@ nonso it def helps us keep our game tite but sometimes these things we fear become a reality no matter ow hard we work..
@ gee thenks oo i feel u
@ sis yemmie im sure we know wen were 90 that the battle is over lol..
álways have these thots too and there seems to be no definite reassurance, just hope and faith i guess...
but yeah, at 90, the battle is definitely over, lol
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