Sunday 18 April 2010

its a mans world

Its amazin ow there are two parties to a relationship theres the party that is noticed for their input and the other could be said to be a sleeping partner does so much or equally as much but its never noticed or mentioned.

First party the man
He goes to work brings the bacon home...protector of the family etc...cant fill in the gaps as i no be man...neither am i tryin to play down their role

2nd party
She goes to work but still never has any time off work...plans the life of the family...the holidays...the days out...the romantic getaways whilst the man works away....they go on the planned journey evryone has a good time etc...the bit no one ever says is the thank u...for working behind the scenes,...either cos it not hours that cn be shown on a payslip...or maybe cos she just assumes the roles upon herself..the other half automatically doesnt see the need to mention thank u and appreciate her...

Somehow the hours the man puts in are reflected in his pay slip etc...so he gets the gratitude...the cooked meals before he ccmes hme ...the massages..etc...

Where am i goin here....no matter how bloody hard i work (am not talkin about the 9-5) because as a woman once u clock out from work and come hme...the rest of the work u do is not accounted for neither is it thot of as much...this is totally unfair...

The man can go to work for hours on end and come hme and chill...this is an option for him...for a woman she goes out to work and she has no option but to come hme and take care of the kids....

it is truelly a mans world...

3 comments:

Sugarking said...

Eyaa, no let am pain u too much o. lol

Myne said...

It sure is. But I also think women should let the other party know they're not superheroes. A little help here and some thank you there sure makes the load lighter.

Juanita said...

so bloody true! Thats what they do oh...hisss. Women suffer a lot!