Thats not the case with people who have married for the wrong reasons and kinda wish and hp for a miracle....unfortunately wat u find is entrapment. For me i define mine as love we love each other to a default....wenever we have an arguement u cn see we are tryin to look out for the others benefit and good. 90% of the arguemnts are mostly about ow u care about the other ...and ow u convey that in an arguement is wat makes or breaks d marriage.
I used to be a fan of love is all we need, but abeggi....if theres so much love and no communication forget it....love cannot carry u thru!
Secondly i used to be a fan of love is wat u need in order to marry thats out the window now....compatibility is all ur mentality needs....not compatible and ull go insane cos ud either back down in frustration or be at logger heads....i actually sat down last week and said nawaooo....tru talk there are so many loveless marriages out there...everyones looking for a companion...thats d essence of marriage not love d end....barefeet don talk....
So wen u see me complain about this love tin sef...just leave me o jare...cos then im in the gallows....but then after the turmoil and heartache of love and marriage i find that im walking on the clouds cos im with someone whos compatible and loves me ...which is a bonus...cos i still get swept off my feet which i cnt say for many marriages ....tru tru no one ever says d truth about their marriage....but hey same thing about life u never know wat to expect...u make it wat u want it to be....so according to barefeet truthfully my marriage is wat i make it...ill recommend it cos
its bad... its heart wrenching....its head soaring....its orgasmic.....!
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It is exactly what you make of it. marriage can be good or it can be bad but to get the better deal, communication and compromise is key. Well said. I may use some of this for my show with Vera tomorrow. Thanks for sharing.
no probs myne was gna add somein to wat u said my sis at least in order to get to compromise u need communication...thats y i believe above all else commuunication is key....evrythin else follows...
hmm, I like that "orgasmic" part well well!! lol. But yeah, Communication is key. Great post!
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